I can remember that day like it was yesterday. I was working in my cubicle on a spring morning when the phone rang. It was my O.B. doctor as I was 10 weeks pregnant with my daughter in 2011. She sounded somber and proceeded to explain that she reviewed my recent sonogram and was concerned. I cannot tell you the exact conversation – but she basically told me that I needed to prepare myself because most likely my baby would die. Yikes, now, I know she did not say it that harshly… but there is really not a “gentle” way to say it.
You see, I diagnosed myself with a subchorionic hemorrhage (SCH) after I gushed red blood at 6 weeks. The ER doctor confirmed my baby was okay. But my spotting did not quit. As a first time pregnant mom reading every book, app and article online – bleeding is never a good sign. Being your own medical advocate is the best thing anyone can do for their health. I found a message board that educated me from actual experiences, many similar to mine. My doctor did not even know what a SCH was – I explained to her that it is a common condition in pregnant women in which a blood clot in the mother’s uterus threatens a miscarriage of the embryo. In early pregnancy, the blood clot can be multiple times the size of the embryo or fetus – so if the blood clot passes, it could take the baby with it or separate the placenta from the uterus wall. Sadly, this does happen to many pregnancies and many moms lose their baby never knowing about this condition as the cause. We are taught that miscarriages are common and “just happen”.
When my doctor was through telling me the grim news, I immediately scheduled an appointment with a specialist. Luckily I was able to get in the next week. As soon as I walked in, I felt comforted being in the hands of an expert of my condition. Within the next few minutes, my worries completely faded as he took one look at my SCH and told me everything was going to be just fine. He had seen much worse. I was overcome with gratitude and felt incredibly blessed. My SCH resolved itself completely 3 weeks later at 14 weeks.
While I consider myself lucky, even though this is a common condition, the gut wrenching reality of others I read about in the online message board was devastating. SCH has taken the lives of many babies, even some close to full term.
I am not a medical professional, but I know my body better than any doctor – so I personally took one 81 mg. aspirin every day in my second pregnancy knowing this could happen again (if you do this, be sure to stop taking it 6 weeks before your due date). I had such a small SCH the ultrasound tech never even mentioned it… I knew to ask though.
If you feel like you may have a SCH or have been diagnosed, talk to your doctor about seeing a Perinatologist for a specialist consultation. Also, I always recommend baby aspirin or also called low dose aspirin. Be sure its only 81mg and only take one daily. This helps with blood clotting, preclamsia and other blood issues. There are studies that show positive affects and no negative ones… so my thought is why not! Better safe than sorry.
God is good, because this now 6 year old girl is my favorite human.


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